Marisa D. Aceves. Rockin’ With Grandma: 60’s Aqua Pattern Punchbowl. digital photography http://acevesart.com/
article by Marisa D. Aceves
Whatever our physical or perceived challenges, we often struggle to get past the world’s expectation of us and our abilities.
Despite our past disappointments, we have all sought refuge in our need to make art out of lifes’ experiences.
What do we do though when the latest idea that we have entertained is immediately shot down by friends, family and colleagues?
Do we give up the projects that excite us the most or do we decide to continue and ignore the opposition?
While people can’t get into our heads to fully understand the scope of our artistic vision, here are some ways to help silence the insecurities that many of us face when we encounter resistance:
1) Suspend Judgement
Go ahead, create your latest artwork series. Don’t worry about what others will say or have said in the past. When you worry about what others think, you begin creating the type of art you believe others want to see not necessarily the art you want to create. The resentment builds. Your art production begins to feel like a chore instead of a privilege.
2) Avoid Over-editing
In the beginning of your process, go ahead and let your ideas and thoughts flow. Work freely and without apologies. You can sensor yourself later. This will help you to both know and trust the way you work. Over-editing often leads to indecision. When indecision occurs, walk away. Take a brief break. Your work will still be there waiting for you.
3) Leave Peoples’ Opinions With Them
Don’t let other peoples’ opinions about an idea or project you want to pursue keep you from following through. Not everyone will like your work. While this fact can bore a hole in the most sensitive egos, people have a right to their opinion. This also means you have a right to yours. It’s your work. Your art should express your views and unique insight. If a person gives constructive criticism, it is solely up to you wether to take it or leave it.
4) Resistance May Be A Sign of Groundbreaking Work
In some cases, people may resist because the type of work you are creating is unfamiliar or ahead of it’s time. Keep pushing yourself. New work is often initially rejected. However, over time, it is accepted as the norm. Be patient with yourself and others.
While many of us seek unconditional love and encouragement from our peers, we have to learn to be our own cheerleaders. Don’t wait for someone else to approve. If you do, you may be waiting for a long time.